A little insight on My views

I thought I would give a little insight on My views of certain subjects, not in the BDSM world but everyday human happenings in life and with our country and the things that happen to everyday people.

Some may not agree with allot of what I have to say but frankly I don’t really care. that’s one of the few great things about this country of ours everyone has their own opinions.

Opinions are like assholes, everyone had one and everyone thinks everyone else’s stinks. So below I will type the subject matter and then My thoughts on it, this will as I said give insight into more about who I am, let people know Me a little better. The things mentioned are things I feel the strongest about .



The War (going to hear hell on this one I’m sure)


Oh where do I start? This subject really chaps My ass. Ill start with saying that in a span of one month just from My little area alone there were four young men who died, I mean just in a matter of maybe 100 miles from each other.

To begin with the reason most say we went over to begin with was to over throw Saddam, well that was accomplished how long ago? So what the fuck are we still doing over there? First of all they have had civil wars in that country for 1,000s of years and a few years of us sticking our noses where they do not belong is not going to change that. We got rid of the man so get the fuck out of there and stop losing the lives of our young men and Women.

I find it very curious that our country may have been thinking about going over there to help the people of that country but why did we not go until the tragic hit on our country involving the twin towers? Was it revenge? I think so, yes they may have thought about going over there but our tragedy in the United States is what bought our troops the plane ticket to risk their lives for revenge.



Child Rearing


I understand that in today’s America it takes both parents working to afford to raise a family and I’m all for that but you have parents that do work and their kids turn out like heathens, they get into drinking and smoking and doing drugs from the lack of supervision in their home.

Don’t get Me wrong parents need make the money to raise their kids but they is also the time they HAVE to spend with them. Its not the quantity of time but the quality that you spend with them that helps them turn out to be decent human beings.

I’ve seen either both parents who work or single parents homes where the kids truly have the upper hand and that comes down to the fault of the parent, not the schools not peer pressure. If you didn’t want to raise your kids the way a child should be then you should have kept your legs closed or kept the thing in your pants.

Now I understand that some (very few) no matter what kind of great parenting they have still fall to peer pressures but the majority is just plain lack of stupidity at one time or another on the parents part.

There is always at least one hour or thirty mins in a day to spend with your kids to make them feel important and wanted and to let them know how proud you are of them.

I feel even if its thirty mins a day as long as you praise your kids, tell them everyday how much you love them, let them know how important they are and their thoughts are, how beautiful they are, how smart they are, how they can do anything they set their mind to, teach them how to treat others and teach them about respect for others and themselves that thirty mins a day is more then they will ever need to grow into strong, productive and respectful members of this country.

I’ve seen to many parents that fall short of what our kids deserve and are worth. To many claiming they are to tired to spend that time with their kids or other parents who over compensate for other things that have happened to their kids thinking that will make up for the trauma they suffered when in fact it just makes them spoiled, snotty and it just makes things worse.

You have to let your kids know your there for them but you still need to hold on to that parental control so they understand who’s really in charge, let them know you are there for them, let them know they can talk to you about anything but don’t baby the problem or your kids or they will be no better then the kids who’s parents are not even there for them.



Domestic Abuse

Now this is for abuse towards men or Women by men or Women.

I understand when your in a relationship that there are times when people will get into heated arguments and there are times it may get physical. Ill tell you right now and this is only for Me personally but heated or not or just a slap on the face if any asshole ever tried to hit Me in any way he would be eating his balls off a paper plate with a plastic fork because he’s not good enough for regular dishware and I would rip them off with My bare hands.

That said , I understand in the throws of that heated argument how someone may get slapped or shoved and how another once everything had cooled down could forgive that person and move on, I hold no ill thoughts for that person that forgave because I agree everyone deserves a second chance.

BUT if it were to ever happen again and that person had never got help to get their anger under control then the person who got hit yet again and decided to stay with that person a second time, well they deserves to be hit.

Let Me explain, there is never any excuse for getting physical but things do happen, but for it to happen yet again and in some cases over and over again that’s just the abused persons own stupidity to have stuck with them over and over again.

I don’t go for the lame ass excuses that “I had no one, I had no where to go” that’s a crock of shit, there is always family or friends or there is a damn abuse shelter in every city or very close by these days so there is no excuse to stay in the same home with someone who is going to treat you like a punching bag, that just shows you have no respect for yourself or your kids by allowing them to see this happen and when the asshole keeps hitting and says I’m sorry it will never happen again and that they love you get a damn clue because love should never physically hurt.


Boarder Control

Now I have no ill will twards people wanting to live in My country , after all it is the land of the free (to a point) but I only have this to say, if you come to our country you should HAVE to speak our damn langouge and you have to follow our rules and our laws.

For example every damn store I went to when I went to TX last year they were full of Mexicans, now I have nothing at all against other races but for the love of god when I ask for help in a store in My damn country I sure the hell want to know what the hell you are saying.

Another example, in WI they allowed allot of the population of Ho Mungs come and live here not only cant you understand what the hell they are saying but their customs as far as what they eat is NOT what we do here. There was a rash of family pets dogs and cats missing all over and come to find out it was the Ho Mung community that were taking them, we DON’T eat fluffy here.

There was another family who flooded a basement of a home to raise carp (a bottom feeding fish) that no one ever really eats unless its smoked and this was a rented home, they had to rip the house down the foundation was shot. There was another family that raised cockroaches in their home to eat, also a rented home and it was infested with them.

Like I said either you learn our way of speaking and living as far as laws and what you can and can not do here or you can go home.


Is Cyber Or Phone Sex Really Cheating?

Anytime a man or a Woman “get off” while speaking sexually to their other half then yes of course its cheating, My man better not ever get off to anyone else other then Me, I show that person that respect so I should get the same thing in return


Politics

I don’t trust anyone in politics lol, I think they all fricking lie to get into office and then all the promises they made while campaigning just go out the window and if they do go through with any that’s just to save face.